Falling in love with all things birth-y…
It all started in the wee hours of the morning on the back porch of our little Nepalese clinic when I was 22 years old, holding the “torch” for the midwife and learning how to say “push” in Nepali, while a young mother gave birth to her first baby. It was surreal and beautiful. I could only think of one thing…someday I wanted to be a midwife.
But eventually, back in the States, life happened and soon enough, I was married and starting a family. I couldn’t juggle it all though, so instead of continuing to pursue my midwifery education, I focused on breastfeeding & raising my babies. I spent my spare time reading everything I could about pregnancy and natural birth.
During this time, I carved out time to be a labor doula to anyone who reached out to me in need. Through these experiences, I found that I learned something new at every birth and over the years, I saw women becoming empowered as they embraced this incredible transformation to motherhood. Together, we were changing the world bit by bit.
As I continued to support other women who were having babies, I was also having babies. Though my first choice was to have all home births, my middle baby was born via C-section, due to unforeseen circumstances. I struggled in the aftermath of that birth and spent some time healing emotionally from its impact. Eventually, I came to terms with the ordeal, however, and went on to have two very empowering VBACs (Vaginal Birth after Cesarean).
All told, I am so grateful for each one of my experiences, as collectively, they have shaped me into the person I am today and made me a better and more empathetic doula. So here I am, still learning everything I can about birth and still loving my role as a doula…and ready to be a vessel of service, the one who bears witness to your beautiful moment, your companion as you search for and find JOY IN YOUR JOURNEY!